Our Brains are like ("Human") Computers & Pionfrossa

All our life experiences are stored in our brains. 

Memories is what they're called. And memories,

 especially memories of big things like the "love

 of your life" and losing that love have lots of 

triggers. 

Their face, smells, scenes, conversations, 

passion, dreams, laughs, tears, hurtful words, 

physical connections, "your song", thousands of 

sensations and emotions that make up the

 memories.

Our computers, I mean our brains, store those
 memories and just lika a computer, can bring 
those files, I mean memories back up on 
the screen, I mean in our consciousness.


The memories (files) are all there.


Now our applications (habits) are how we handle
 those memories (files).

If you bought a brand new computer and 
took your old one and put it on a shelf for
 eight years, everything stays intact. So if 
you fired it up eight years later, everything
 would still be exactly where it was
 eight years before.

Same folders, same colors, same fonts, 
same everything.

Our brains are the similar. Our memories
 have a physical address. The memory of 
your first kiss is still in the same place it 
was the day it was first imprinted on 
your brain.

Unlike computers, we can't delete bad 
memories. 

We can only change how we perceive them 

and what they mean to us.

So since we can't actually delete bad 
memories (files), or erase bad habits 
(programs) from your brain, the best and 
most effective way to get yourself

 over them is to override them with new
 "files" and "programs" To change what the
 bad memories mean.

Since the old events will always be there, 
the best you can do is to make them mean 
something else. Or shrink them. 
Change their color. Make them look 

and feel less "real".

That it what "releasing" and "clearing" 
statement do.

And remember repetition. 

Repetition is the key. Relasing statements 

actually have the "problem" built in.

"I have let go of all (state the thing

 you've let go of)"

"I have risen above (state some tragedy/bad habit)"

"I have replaced (state problem 

behavior/emotion) with (empowering/success

 producing behavior/emotion)"

"Whenever (negative thing) happens, 

I think/act in some positive way)" 

Ooooh can this get your mind going ...... ;)

For example bad habits and fears usually 

have a positive intent. Fear for example grabs 

you typically when there is a real or perceived

 risk of loss or danger.

And the brain doesn't want to get rid of the

 fear, even if it's irrational fear, because it 

thinks that it is protecting you from real

 danger. See?

So when you try to let go of the unnecessary

 fear, there can be rebellion by your mind. 

Getting rid of a particular fear that you have, 

your mind may reason, will make you do 

stupid, careless, reckless things.

And we can't have that now ......

This is what makes changing how we 

think and act so hard.

This is the dynamic that makes most all 

self-help/how-to info totally useless ...... 

not because it isn't good advice, but because

 there is now way in the world you will ever 

follow through on most or any of it.

You just gotta alter the files and programs in 

your computer, I mean your brain, so they don't

 read the same way any more.

If you don't?

Your computer, I mean your brain, 

won't run right.

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och den manliga hjärnan. Hmmm ja det är

inte så konstigt att det uppstår konflikter och 

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